Internal Family Systems (IFS) & Parts-Based Therapies

Turns out you're not just you - and that's actually really good news!

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What is IFS & Parts-Based Therapy?

Parts-based therapy is not a single model; it is a rich and expansive family of therapeutic approaches united by one foundational insight: that the human mind is naturally and healthily made up of multiple distinct inner parts, states, or subpersonalities, each with its own perspective, role, emotional world, and protective purpose. Rather than viewing emotional conflict, self-sabotage, or internal contradiction as evidence that something is broken, parts-based approaches recognize these experiences as the deeply understandable result of a psyche that has adapted, divided, and reorganized in order to survive. The goal is never to eliminate any part of you; it is to understand what every part has been carrying, help it be heard, and ultimately bring more harmony, integration, and Self-leadership to your inner world.

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At Providence Therapy, our work draws from several of the most well-researched and clinically rich traditions within the parts-based landscape. Internal Family Systems (IFS), developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, is one of the most widely used and thoroughly researched models in this space. It organizes inner parts into three broad roles — Exiles, who carry the pain, fear, and shame of past experiences; Managers, the proactive protectors who try to keep everything functioning and under control; and Firefighters, who activate in crisis to douse overwhelming emotion by whatever means necessary. Beneath all of these lives, the Self, the calm, compassionate, curious, and creative core that is never damaged by trauma, and whose leadership is the destination of healing. Ego State Therapy, developed by John and Helen Watkins, approaches the inner world through the lens of distinct ego states; discrete self-states that develop over time, often in response to trauma, and that can be accessed, communicated with, and integrated through techniques including guided imagery, somatic bridging, and therapeutic dialogue. Gestalt therapy adds another powerful dimension through its emphasis on present-moment awareness and experiential contact, particularly through approaches like chairwork, which bring inner parts into active, embodied dialogue rather than simply talking about them from a distance. Beyond these three, parts-based work at Providence may also draw from structural dissociation theory, ego state or IFS-informed EMDR or OEI, Voice Dialogue, and inner child approaches; all woven together into a treatment framework that is tailored specifically to you.

Why you might be here

You're Tired of Being at War With Yourself

You might know this feeling well, the one where part of you desperately wants to set a limit, while another part immediately floods with guilt and backs down. Or where one part craves rest while another insists there's no time, no permission, no good enough reason to stop. Maybe you've noticed a harsh inner voice that seems to run a constant low-grade commentary on everything you do, or perhaps you've been startled by the intensity of a reaction that felt less like "you" and more like someone younger, more frightened, more desperate was suddenly at the wheel. You might feel a profound sense of fragmentation, like you show up as one person at work, another in relationships, another when alone; and underneath it all, a quiet question: who am I, actually? Perhaps you've tried to logic your way through these patterns, talk yourself out of them, or simply override them with willpower, and found that none of it quite works. That's because parts don't respond to force. They respond to understanding.

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If any of this resonates, parts-based therapy was made for exactly this. These inner conflicts aren't character flaws. They aren't signs that you're too complicated or too broken to heal. They are the deeply intelligent (if sometimes exhausting) responses of a psyche that has been doing its best to protect you from pain, shame, loss, and overwhelm. The inner critic that won't let up? Maybe it's protecting you from something it fears will happen if you let your guard down. The shutdown that kicks in without warning? Maybe it's a protector too, trying to spare you from being flooded. The younger part that still flinches at certain tones of voice or seems to make decisions from a place of old fear? Maybe it hasn't gotten the news yet that things are different now. Parts-based therapy is the process of delivering that news; gently, safely, and at a pace your whole system can trust.

the outcome

What Sets Us Apart

  • Unconventional by Choice, Exceptional by Design

    Our clinicians combine specialized expertise with intentionally unconventional, innovative methods to craft care that is deeply personal and never one-size-fits-all.
  • We don't just talk about it

    Our experiential, integrative treatment models address trauma and a wide range of concerns at their root.
  • Trusted by Over 3,500 Clients and Counting

    Our track record reflects thousands of individuals, couples, and families who have found meaningful healing with our team.
  • Rooted in Values, Driven by Relationship

    We believe values-based leadership creates values-based care. That relational philosophy shapes every interaction you have with our team, and you'll feel it.

the outcome

About us

What Sets Us Apart

  • Unconventional by Choice, Exceptional by Design

    Our clinicians combine specialized expertise with intentionally unconventional, innovative methods to craft care that is deeply personal and never one-size-fits-all.
  • We don't just talk about it

    Our experiential, integrative treatment models address trauma and a wide range of concerns at their root.
  • Trusted by Over 3,500 Clients and Counting

    Our track record reflects thousands of individuals, couples, and families who have found meaningful healing with our team.
  • Rooted in Values, Driven by Relationship

    We believe values-based leadership creates values-based care. That relational philosophy shapes every interaction you have with our team, and you'll feel it.
What you might walk away with

A profound and often life-changing shift in the relationship with themselves - from inner warfare to genuine self-compassion and curiosity

A quieter, less relentless inner critic - understood now as a protector in need of relief, not an enemy to defeat

Freedom from the exhausting internal tug-of-war between conflicting wants, needs, and fears

Healing for the younger, more vulnerable parts carrying the weight of old pain, shame, or fear - so they no longer need to run the show

Reduced emotional flooding, reactivity, and the terrifying sense of being taken over by a part of yourself you can't control

A more coherent, stable, and integrated sense of identity - less fragmentation, more continuity

Greater capacity for real, grounded connection in relationships - with less reactivity and more genuine presence

Relief from shame and self-blame - replaced by an understanding of why every part developed, and what it has been protecting

A felt, embodied experience of the Self- that calm, compassionate, wise core that was always there, waiting to lead

Match With A Therapist

Why choose Providence Therapy

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Many Parts, One Approach: Meeting All of You With Care

Parts-based therapy has been gaining significant and well-deserved momentum in the clinical world, and the research is catching up with what therapists have been observing for decades. IFS was listed on the National Registry of Evidence-Based Programs and Practices (NREPP) in 2015, and a 2025 scoping review identified it as a "promising therapeutic approach" for PTSD, depression, and chronic pain with significant symptom reduction in clinical trials. Research published in the Journal of Trauma and Dissociation has demonstrated strong outcomes for complex trauma survivors using IFS, including reductions in intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, and emotional numbing. Ego State Therapy is widely recognized for its effectiveness with dissociative presentations and the kind of inner fragmentation that develops from developmental or relational trauma. Parts-based work is increasingly understood to work neurologically by simultaneously activating original emotional memories while creating a contradictory experience of compassion and safety through the Self; a process that mirrors memory reconsolidation and allows the brain to update traumatic neural pathways at a deep and lasting level.

What many people seeking parts-based therapy don't always know is just how wide and adaptable this world of approaches really is. Parts work is not a single, fixed protocol; it is a deeply flexible and personalized framework, and the richness of what's possible expands considerably when a therapist brings depth of training across multiple parts-based traditions. The more specialized and varied a clinician's background in this area, the more precisely they can meet each client's unique internal landscape; knowing when to work with IFS's language of Exiles and Self, when Ego State Therapy's more structured approach to discrete states is a better fit, when Gestalt chair work will bring something alive that quieter inner exploration cannot, and when a blend of several traditions will serve the work most effectively. There is no one-size-fits-all path through an inner system as unique as yours, and having access to a team that can navigate that full range is one of the most meaningful things you can look for when choosing this kind of care.

At Providence Therapy, our team brings IFS training, specialized education in ego state therapy and structural dissociation, and formal experience applying parts-based approaches alongside EMDR, OEI, somatic therapies, and attachment-focused relational work. This breadth means that your therapist isn't working from a single map; they are drawing from a rich, well-practiced toolkit, shaped entirely around what your system needs and what your healing calls for. Parts-based work at Providence also never happens in isolation: it is woven into a comprehensive, integrative treatment experience that addresses your nervous system, your relational patterns, and your inner world all at once, because lasting healing is rarely the result of one thing done well in isolation. It is the result of many things done well, together.

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Our Team

Elizabeth Anderson

RSW.

Registered Social Worker

Dr. Manj Bath

R.Psych.

Licensed Psychologist, PsyD.

Salley-Anne Ross

M.A., R.C.C.

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Sun Gupta

MCP, RCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor & Art Therapist

Olivia Herron

MA, RCC.

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Daniel Prince

MCP, RCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor

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MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker, Speaker & Educator

Jonathan Jung

MCP, RCC, PCP-IV

Registered Clinical Counsellor & Primary Care Paramedic

Debra Rapske

MACP - R.Psych

Registered Clinical Psychologist & Educator

Alysha Aubin

MCP, RCC

Owner /Clinical Director, Registered Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

Emily Macdonell

MC, RCC

Clinical Director, Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

Christen McCallum

MA.Lead, MCP, RCC, NATC, CIMHP

Owner/Founder, Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

For Your Clarity

Internal Family Systems (IFS) & Parts-Based Therapies Frequently Asked Questions

What is parts-based therapy, and how is it different from regular talk therapy?

Parts-based therapy is a broad family of approaches - including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Ego State Therapy, and Gestalt-informed chairwork - that understand the mind as naturally made up of multiple inner parts or subpersonalities, each with its own perspective, emotional world, and protective role. Rather than analyzing thoughts and behaviours from the outside, parts-based therapy works from the inside, building relationships with the different parts of your inner world, understanding what they've been carrying, and helping them integrate toward greater harmony and Self-leadership. It is experiential, relational, and often profoundly different from anything clients have encountered in more traditional talk-based settings.

How does IFS differ from Ego State Therapy and other parts models like Inner Child?

While IFS, Ego State Therapy, Inner Child work, and other parts models all share the same foundational belief (that we are made up of many inner parts, each deserving of understanding and care), they each bring something a little different to the table. IFS works with a specific internal map: Exiles who carry old pain, Managers who keep things running, and Firefighters who respond in crisis, all held together by the calm, compassionate presence of the Self. Ego State Therapy takes a complementary approach, working directly with discrete self-states that have developed over time (often in response to trauma) and tends to be especially well-suited for more complex presentations involving dissociation or deep identity fragmentation. Inner child work, which weaves through many of these approaches, brings a particular tenderness to the younger parts of us that are still carrying old hurts and unmet needs. In practice, these approaches are far less separate than they might sound. At Providence, we draw fluidly from all of them, letting your unique inner landscape guide which language, techniques, and entry points serve your healing best.

Do I have to have trauma for parts-based therapy to be helpful?

Not at all. While parts-based approaches are highly effective for complex PTSD, developmental trauma, dissociation, and attachment wounds, they are equally valuable for anxiety, depression, perfectionism, people-pleasing, chronic self-criticism, relationship challenges, identity questions, burnout, and the general sense of being at war with yourself. If you've ever noticed inner conflict (one part of you wanting something, another part resisting), parts-based therapy has something to offer you.

What does a parts-based session actually feel like?

Sessions often begin with gentle inner exploration. Your therapist may invite you to notice what's arising inside as you speak, or to become curious about a reaction, emotion, or physical sensation and what part of you it might belong to. As trust builds, the work can become more experiential, actively engaging with parts through imagery, inner dialogue, or embodied techniques like chairwork. It rarely feels clinical or detached; most clients describe it as surprisingly moving, and often note that shifts happen not just in their thinking but in how they feel in their bodies. You are always guided, always in the driver's seat, and the pace is always determined by what your system is ready for.

Is parts-based therapy safe for people with dissociation?

Yes, when delivered by a therapist with appropriate training and experience. Parts-based approaches are, in fact, among the most effective available for dissociative presentations, including structural dissociation, ego state fragmentation, and complex PTSD. The key is ensuring your therapist has specialized training in dissociation-informed parts work, understands how to carefully pace the process, and knows when stabilization needs to precede any deeper exploration. At Providence, our clinicians hold advanced training in both parts-based approaches and dissociation, and your safety and stabilization will always come first.

How many sessions will I need?

This varies considerably depending on the complexity of your history and what your inner system needs. Some clients notice meaningful shifts in understanding and self-compassion within a relatively short course of work. For others, particularly those navigating developmental trauma, significant dissociation, or a long history of relational wounding, parts-based therapy unfolds gradually over a longer period, building trust layer by layer. Your therapist will work collaboratively with you to develop a realistic, personalized plan and revisit it regularly as your work evolves.