Abuse and Trauma Healing

Healing from abuse and trauma is not about forgetting what happened. It is about reclaiming who you are.

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What Happened to You Was Real, and So Is Your Healing

You may be carrying the weight of something that was done to you, something that should never have happened. Abuse and trauma take many forms, and not all of them are immediately recognizable as such. Some experiences are obvious and acute: sexual assault, physical violence, a sudden and overwhelming event that shattered your sense of safety. Others are more insidious, woven into the fabric of everyday life in ways that were easy to minimize or explain away at the time. Emotional and psychological abuse, the chronic criticism, manipulation, gaslighting, and control that erode a person's sense of reality and worth over time. Spiritual abuse, where faith or religious community was used as a tool of harm or coercive control. Narcissistic and antagonistic relational harm, where the person who was supposed to love or care for you treated you as an object for their own needs. Childhood neglect, the absence of the attuned, consistent care every child deserves, which leaves its own quiet and lasting imprint. Relational and attachment trauma, shaped not by a single event but by years of chronic misattunement, unpredictability, or conditional love. Complex trauma that developed across multiple relationships or environments over a long period of time. If any of these resonate, even partially, even if you are not sure the word trauma applies to your experience, you are welcome here.

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Whatever the nature of what you have been through, its impact does not stay neatly in the past. It lives in the body, in the nervous system, and in the way you move through relationships and the world. You might find yourself reacting to things in ways that seem out of proportion but make complete sense once you understand how deeply your experiences have shaped your system. Flashbacks, hypervigilance, numbness, difficulty trusting, or shame that was never yours to carry in the first place: these are not signs that something is wrong with you. They are signs that your system did what it needed to do to survive something it should never have had to survive. You might be someone who has never spoken about what happened to anyone, or someone who has talked about it but has not yet found the kind of support that reaches beneath the surface of the story and into the actual healing. Whatever brought you to this page, we want you to know that you are in the right place. Abuse and trauma healing is not only possible. At Providence, it is what we were built to do.

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Trauma-Responsive, Whole-Person Healing With Expertise and Care

Providence Therapy was founded as a trauma-responsive clinic, which means that healing from abuse and traumatic experience is not one service among many for us. It is the centre of our clinical identity and the specialization around which our entire team has been trained. We work with a wide range of traumatic experiences, including childhood physical, sexual, emotional, and psychological abuse; adult experiences of relational and intimate partner violence; narcissistic abuse and antagonistic relational harm; spiritual and religious abuse; complex and developmental trauma arising from prolonged or repeated adverse experiences; single-incident trauma and acute PTSD; and the layered presentations that emerge when multiple forms of trauma have occurred across a lifetime. We understand that no two trauma histories are alike, and we do not approach yours with a formula.

Our trauma work is deeply integrative, drawing from the most effective and evidence-based trauma treatments available, including EMDR, OEI, Deep Brain Reorienting, IFS and parts-based therapies, somatic and polyvagal-informed approaches, and attachment-focused relational work. We treat trauma at every level it is held: in the memory, in the nervous system, in the body, in the relational patterns, and in the sense of self. At Providence, we also understand that healing from abuse is not only about processing what happened. It is about recovering the self that was there before, or perhaps meeting for the first time the person you were always meant to become. Every step of that journey is taken at your pace, with your safety at the centre, and with a team that considers it a genuine privilege to walk alongside you through it.

Why choose Providence Therapy

7

years in business

3,500+

clients served

34 +

modalitie options

10 +

neurotherapy options

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"Trauma is not what happens to you. It is what happens inside you as a result of what happens to you. And what happens inside you can heal, when the right conditions are finally present."

the outcome

What Sets Us Apart

  • Unconventional by Choice, Exceptional by Design

    Our clinicians combine specialized expertise with intentionally unconventional, innovative methods to craft care that is deeply personal and never one-size-fits-all.
  • We don't just talk about it

    Our experiential, integrative treatment models address trauma and a wide range of concerns at their root.
  • Trusted by Over 3,500 Clients and Counting

    Our track record reflects thousands of individuals, couples, and families who have found meaningful healing with our team.
  • Rooted in Values, Driven by Relationship

    We believe values-based leadership creates values-based care. That relational philosophy shapes every interaction you have with our team, and you'll feel it.

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About us

What Sets Us Apart

  • Unconventional by Choice, Exceptional by Design

    Our clinicians combine specialized expertise with intentionally unconventional, innovative methods to craft care that is deeply personal and never one-size-fits-all.
  • We don't just talk about it

    Our experiential, integrative treatment models address trauma and a wide range of concerns at their root.
  • Trusted by Over 3,500 Clients and Counting

    Our track record reflects thousands of individuals, couples, and families who have found meaningful healing with our team.
  • Rooted in Values, Driven by Relationship

    We believe values-based leadership creates values-based care. That relational philosophy shapes every interaction you have with our team, and you'll feel it.

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What you might walk away with

Processed traumatic memories that no longer hold the same emotional charge, so the past can begin to feel like the past

A body that feels safer to inhabit, with reduced physical symptoms, tension, and the chronic alertness of a nervous system that has been on guard for too long

Relief from flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and the sudden flooding that has made daily life feel unpredictable

The ability to distinguish between the present and the past, so that what happened then no longer hijacks what is happening now

A profoundly healed relationship with yourself, including the release of shame, self-blame, and the false beliefs about your worth and value that abuse leaves behind

Greater capacity for safe, trusting relationships, as the hypervigilance and guardedness that protected you begin to soften into something more open

A clearer sense of your own identity, separate from what was done to you and from the roles you were placed in

Restored agency, voice, and the felt experience of your life belonging to you again

A genuine and earned sense of hope: not the fragile, effortful kind, but the kind that arrives quietly when the body and mind finally begin to believe that it is safe to put the weight down

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Staff Who Offer this Service

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Elizabeth Anderson

She/Her

RSW.

Registered Social Worker

Dr. Manj Bath

(He/Him)

R.Psych.

Licensed Psychologist, PsyD.

Salley-Anne Ross

(She/Her)

M.A., R.C.C.

Registered Clinical Counsellor and Certified Music Therapist

Sun Gupta

(They/Them)

MCP, RCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor & Art Therapist

Olivia Herron

(She/Her)

MA, RCC.

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Daniel Prince

(He/Him)

MCP, RCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Dorsa Sobhani

(She/Her)

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker, Speaker & Educator

Debra Rapske

(She/Her)

MACP - R.Psych

Registered Clinical Psychologist & Educator

Chris Vu

(He/Him)

MCP, AT, RCC

Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Art Therapist

Alysha Aubin

(She/Her)

MCP, RCC

Owner /Clinical Director, Registered Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

Emily Macdonell

(She/Her)

MC, RCC

Clinical Director, Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

Christen McCallum

(She/Her)

MA.Lead, MCP, RCC, NATC, CIMHP

Owner/Founder, Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator

What kinds of abuse and trauma do you work with at Providence?

Our team works with a broad and complex range of traumatic experiences, including childhood physical, sexual, emotional, and psychological abuse; adult experiences of relational and intimate partner violence; narcissistic abuse and antagonistic relational harm; spiritual and religious abuse; complex and developmental trauma arising from prolonged or repeated adverse experiences; single-incident trauma and acute PTSD; and the layered presentations that emerge when multiple forms of trauma have occurred across a lifetime. If you are unsure whether your experience falls within our scope, a discovery call is the best place to begin.

Do I have to talk about what happened in detail for healing to occur?

No, and this is one of the most important things we want people to know. Many of the therapeutic approaches we use at Providence, including EMDR, Neurofeedback, OEI, DBR, and somatic therapy, work directly with the nervous system and the body's held experience of trauma without requiring detailed verbal recounting of events. For many clients with trauma histories, being asked to narrate their experiences in full before their system is ready can be retraumatizing rather than healing. At Providence, we always pace the work carefully and follow your readiness rather than pushing you toward disclosure before it feels genuinely safe.

How do you ensure the work feels safe and does not retraumatize me?

Safety is a clinical commitment at Providence, not just a value. Before any trauma processing begins, we invest in building the therapeutic relationship, assessing and developing your capacity for nervous system regulation, and establishing stabilization tools that allow you to move into deeper work from a place of genuine readiness. We do everything in our power to ensure that processing is prepared, paced, and clinically held with care. That said, we also want to be honest with you: safe is not always the same as comfortable. Trauma work asks us to move toward experiences our system has spent considerable energy avoiding, and it is not uncommon for things to feel harder before they begin to feel better. Deep work of this nature carries an inherent level of risk, and while we believe wholeheartedly in each client's capacity to heal, we cannot guarantee specific timelines or outcomes. Some clients experience profound relief and deeply meaningful shifts relatively quickly, and those moments are genuinely some of the most moving things we witness in this work. For others, the journey is more gradual, more layered, and unfolds in ways that look different from what was initially expected. What healing looks like is as individual as the person doing it. What we can promise is that we will walk alongside you through every part of the process with honesty, genuine care, clinical skill, and an unwavering belief in your capacity to find your way through.

What if I have dissociative experiences or memory gaps related to my trauma?

Dissociation and fragmented or incomplete memory are extremely common responses to overwhelming traumatic experience, and our team is specifically trained to work with both. Several of the approaches we use, including OEI, DBR, and parts-based therapies, are particularly well-suited to presentations involving dissociation, as they work at a physiological and somatic level that does not depend on complete or coherent narrative memory. You do not need to have a full account of what happened to begin healing from it.

I am worried about being judged for what happened or for how I responded to it. Is that something I need to be concerned about at Providence?

Not for a moment. One of the most foundational commitments of our clinic is that every client is met with unconditional positive regard, genuine warmth, and a complete absence of judgment. Shame is one of the most universal and most damaging legacies of abuse, and our team is deeply aware of the courage it takes to bring your experience into a therapeutic space. Whatever happened to you, however you responded to it, and whatever you have done or not done since, none of it will change the way you are received here. You are safe to be exactly as you are.

How long does trauma healing take?

Trauma healing is not a linear process, and its timeline varies significantly depending on the nature and complexity of your history, your current life circumstances, and the therapeutic approaches most suited to your presentation. Some clients experience meaningful shifts relatively quickly, particularly where the trauma is more recent or circumscribed. For others, particularly those with complex developmental trauma histories, the work unfolds more gradually and requires a longer, more sustained investment. What we can tell you is that at Providence, we do not rush the process, we do not operate from arbitrary timelines, and we review your progress collaboratively and regularly so that you always have a clear sense of where you are and where you are headed.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What kinds of abuse and trauma do you work with at Providence?

Our team works with a broad and complex range of traumatic experiences, including childhood physical, sexual, emotional, and psychological abuse; adult experiences of relational and intimate partner violence; narcissistic abuse and antagonistic relational harm; spiritual and religious abuse; complex and developmental trauma arising from prolonged or repeated adverse experiences; single-incident trauma and acute PTSD; and the layered presentations that emerge when multiple forms of trauma have occurred across a lifetime. If you are unsure whether your experience falls within our scope, a discovery call is the best place to begin.

Do I have to talk about what happened in detail for healing to occur?

No, and this is one of the most important things we want people to know. Many of the therapeutic approaches we use at Providence, including EMDR, Neurofeedback, OEI, DBR, and somatic therapy, work directly with the nervous system and the body's held experience of trauma without requiring detailed verbal recounting of events. For many clients with trauma histories, being asked to narrate their experiences in full before their system is ready can be retraumatizing rather than healing. At Providence, we always pace the work carefully and follow your readiness rather than pushing you toward disclosure before it feels genuinely safe.

How do you ensure the work feels safe and does not retraumatize me?

Safety is a clinical commitment at Providence, not just a value. Before any trauma processing begins, we invest in building the therapeutic relationship, assessing and developing your capacity for nervous system regulation, and establishing stabilization tools that allow you to move into deeper work from a place of genuine readiness. We do everything in our power to ensure that processing is prepared, paced, and clinically held with care. That said, we also want to be honest with you: safe is not always the same as comfortable. Trauma work asks us to move toward experiences our system has spent considerable energy avoiding, and it is not uncommon for things to feel harder before they begin to feel better. Deep work of this nature carries an inherent level of risk, and while we believe wholeheartedly in each client's capacity to heal, we cannot guarantee specific timelines or outcomes. Some clients experience profound relief and deeply meaningful shifts relatively quickly, and those moments are genuinely some of the most moving things we witness in this work. For others, the journey is more gradual, more layered, and unfolds in ways that look different from what was initially expected. What healing looks like is as individual as the person doing it. What we can promise is that we will walk alongside you through every part of the process with honesty, genuine care, clinical skill, and an unwavering belief in your capacity to find your way through.

What if I have dissociative experiences or memory gaps related to my trauma?

Dissociation and fragmented or incomplete memory are extremely common responses to overwhelming traumatic experience, and our team is specifically trained to work with both. Several of the approaches we use, including OEI, DBR, and parts-based therapies, are particularly well-suited to presentations involving dissociation, as they work at a physiological and somatic level that does not depend on complete or coherent narrative memory. You do not need to have a full account of what happened to begin healing from it.

I am worried about being judged for what happened or for how I responded to it. Is that something I need to be concerned about at Providence?

Not for a moment. One of the most foundational commitments of our clinic is that every client is met with unconditional positive regard, genuine warmth, and a complete absence of judgment. Shame is one of the most universal and most damaging legacies of abuse, and our team is deeply aware of the courage it takes to bring your experience into a therapeutic space. Whatever happened to you, however you responded to it, and whatever you have done or not done since, none of it will change the way you are received here. You are safe to be exactly as you are.

How long does trauma healing take?

Trauma healing is not a linear process, and its timeline varies significantly depending on the nature and complexity of your history, your current life circumstances, and the therapeutic approaches most suited to your presentation. Some clients experience meaningful shifts relatively quickly, particularly where the trauma is more recent or circumscribed. For others, particularly those with complex developmental trauma histories, the work unfolds more gradually and requires a longer, more sustained investment. What we can tell you is that at Providence, we do not rush the process, we do not operate from arbitrary timelines, and we review your progress collaboratively and regularly so that you always have a clear sense of where you are and where you are headed.

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