You pictured this differently. And that doesn't make you a bad parent.

Compassionate, specialized support for the emotional reality of pregnancy, birth, and the season that follows.
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why you might be here

This is supposed to be the happiest time of your life. So why does it feel like this?

The story we are told about pregnancy and new parenthood is one of joy, wonder, and instinctive love. And sometimes it is those things. But it is also, far more often than anyone talks about, a season of profound overwhelm, identity disruption, physical depletion, relational strain, and feelings that don't fit neatly into the narrative of gratitude you feel you're supposed to be living. When the reality of this season collides with the version you expected, the gap can feel disorienting and isolating in ways that are very hard to name out loud.

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You might be experiencing anxiety that feels relentless, a sadness that won't lift, rage that arrives without warning, or a numbness that makes it hard to feel connected to your baby or to yourself. You might be haunted by a birth that didn't go the way you hoped, carrying grief from a pregnancy loss, or navigating the complicated emotional terrain of fertility treatment and what it cost you to get here. You might be further into the parenting journey and finding that the pressure, the sleeplessness, the loss of self, and the reorganization of everything has accumulated into something you can no longer manage alone. All of it is valid. All of it deserves care.

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"You don't have to be grateful every moment. You're allowed to grieve what this season is costing you and love your child at the same time." - Unknown

the outcome

Finding yourself again, alongside this new chapter.

Perinatal and postpartum mental health support is not about becoming the parent you imagined or performing a version of this season that looks better from the outside. It is about being genuinely supported through one of the most significant transitions a human being can navigate, so that you can be present for it in the way that actually matters. That includes being present for your own experience, not just your child's.

With the right support, what becomes possible includes:

  • Relief from the anxiety, depression, rage, or numbness that has been consuming this season
  • A more compassionate and honest relationship with your own experience of parenthood
  • Processing of birth trauma, pregnancy loss, or the grief of fertility struggles
  • Restored connection with yourself, your body, your partner, and your baby
  • Tools for nervous system regulation that support you in the hardest moments
  • Greater clarity around the identity shifts and role changes that this season brings
  • Reduced shame around the parts of parenthood that are hard, ambivalent, or nothing like you expected
  • A stronger sense of self that holds both parent and person at the same time
  • The felt experience of not being alone in this

Providence Therapy

Why choose us

33 +  modalities

for your needs

We offer over 33 evidence-based therapy approaches.

Your therapist will find the best fit for your specific needs, tailored to you as an individual.

80 +  years

of Combined Experience

Our therapists bring 80+ years of accumulated experience in mental health.

You're working with seasoned professionals who understand complex cases.

Advanced Training

in Neuroscience

Our therapists are trained in the latest trauma and neuroscience research.
We integrate traditional therapy with neurofeedback technology for deeper healing.

How therapy at Providence helps

Specialized perinatal care that holds the full weight of this season.

Perinatal and postpartum mental health is a specialized area of clinical practice, and it matters enormously that the support you receive is grounded in genuine expertise rather than general therapeutic goodwill. At Providence, our therapists bring specific knowledge of the neurological, hormonal, relational, and identity dimensions of the perinatal period to their work with clients in this season. We understand that what presents as postpartum depression or anxiety is rarely a simple or singular experience. It is shaped by birth history, trauma, relational context, nervous system baseline, attachment history, and the seismic identity reorganization that accompanies becoming a parent.

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The neurological dimensions of this work are significant. The perinatal period involves some of the most dramatic hormonal and neurological shifts the human brain experiences across a lifetime, including changes that affect emotional regulation, threat sensitivity, sleep architecture, and the brain's relational attunement systems. When these shifts occur alongside unprocessed trauma, relational stress, or a history of mental health difficulty, the result can be a presentation that is complex and layered in ways that require genuinely skilled clinical support. Our trauma-informed, somatically attuned, and attachment-focused approach is well suited to exactly this kind of complexity. We also hold the broader context of this season with care, including the impact on partnerships, the renegotiation of roles and responsibilities, the grief of losses both concrete and invisible, and the very particular exhaustion of caring for a new life while your own inner world is asking urgently for attention.

for your clarity

Frequently Asked Questions

What is perinatal mental health and how is it different from postpartum depression?

Perinatal mental health refers to emotional and psychological wellbeing across the entire period from conception through the first year following birth. Postpartum depression is one presentation within this broader landscape, but it is far from the only one. Perinatal mental health concerns also include prenatal anxiety and depression, birth trauma, perinatal OCD, postpartum anxiety, postpartum rage, postpartum psychosis, grief related to pregnancy loss or fertility struggles, and the complex identity disruption that accompanies new parenthood even in the absence of a diagnosable condition. If something about this season is harder than you can manage alone, that is reason enough to seek support.

Is it normal to feel angry, numb, or disconnected after having a baby?

Yes, and more commonly than the cultural narrative around new parenthood allows for. Postpartum rage, emotional numbness, and disconnection from the baby or from oneself are recognized and well-documented experiences that fall within the spectrum of perinatal mental health responses. They are not signs of bad parenting, insufficient love, or a fundamental flaw in you as a person. They are signs that your system is overwhelmed and needs support, and they respond well to the right kind of care.

Do you work with non-birthing parents and co-parents too?

Yes, fully. The perinatal period affects all caregiving partners, not only the person who gave birth. Partners can experience their own anxiety, depression, identity disruption, grief, and sense of disconnection or inadequacy during this season, and those experiences deserve care too. We work with all parents navigating the perinatal period, individually or together, and we approach each person's experience with the same attunement and seriousness.

Do you work with non-birthing parents and co-parents too?

Yes, fully. The perinatal period affects all caregiving partners, not only the person who gave birth. Partners can experience their own anxiety, depression, identity disruption, grief, and sense of disconnection or inadequacy during this season, and those experiences deserve care too. We work with all parents navigating the perinatal period, individually or together, and we approach each person's experience with the same attunement and seriousness.

Can therapy help after pregnancy loss or a traumatic birth experience?

Absolutely, and we want to be clear that both of these experiences deserve genuine therapeutic support rather than the pressure to move on or stay strong. Pregnancy loss, including miscarriage, stillbirth, and termination for medical reasons, is a form of grief that is profoundly real and often deeply minimized by the people and systems around us. Birth trauma, including experiences of feeling unsafe, unheard, or out of control during labour and delivery, can produce lasting PTSD-like responses that affect subsequent pregnancies, parenting, and intimate relationships. Both deserve and respond to trauma-informed, compassionate care.

What if I'm struggling but my baby seems fine and is being cared for?

Your wellbeing matters independently and intrinsically, not only in service of your child's outcomes. That said, we understand that many parents find it easier to access support when they can connect it to their child's needs as well. The research is clear that a parent who is emotionally supported and regulated is one of the most significant protective factors for a child's neurological and relational development. Seeking care for yourself is an act of care for your child. Both things are true, and both are reason enough.

How do I know if what I'm experiencing is serious enough to seek help?

If what you are experiencing is affecting your quality of life, your relationships, your sense of self, or your capacity to function in the way you want to, it is serious enough. You do not need to reach a crisis point to deserve support, and waiting until things get worse is never the recommended path. Early intervention in perinatal mental health concerns is associated with significantly better outcomes for both parents and children. If something feels off, that is enough of a reason to reach out.

Our Team

Dr. Manj Bath

R.Psych.

Licensed Psychologist, PsyD.

Salley-Anne Ross

M.A., R.C.C.

Registered Clinical Counsellor and Certified Music Therapist

Olivia Herron

MA, RCC.

Registered Clinical Counsellor

Dorsa Sobhani

MSW, RSW

Registered Social Worker, Speaker & Educator

Emily Macdonell

MC, RCC

Clinical Director, Registered Clinical Counsellor, Lens Provider & Educator